Sleepytime Update

Thank you to everyone who offered advice on sleeping children in the same room!!! I am happy to say that the transition went well. The first night took 2 hours for them to fall asleep, the second night took 1 hour, the third night took 30 minutes, and the 4th night took 15 minutes. Not so bad! James often wakes up when I come in to feed Kate at night, but he just stands up in his crib and looks at me. I keep my back to him. We are both silent. When I come back in from feeding Kate he is almost always asleep again. Yes, I do leave the room to feed Kate. I don't want to push my luck. I have not tried napping them together. Kate naps in our room while James naps in the kid room.


Sometimes James goes to bed first and sometimes Kate goes to bed first depending on the night. (Their bedtime is at the same time, but one will typically get laid down first--Jordan gets James down for the night while I take care of Kate). At first I tried to nurse Kate in the kids' room while James was trying to go to sleep...bad idea. He just wanted to chit-chat. It was way too tempting for him. So now I nurse Kate in our room and then bring her into the kids' room to lay her down. I usually walk in to a little boy happily playing. So, I help him lay back down and replace his blanket and then they go to sleep. When Kate goes to bed first, Jordan and James read, pray, and sing a song in the living room. Then James is prepped on being so very quiet and sneaky, so that Kate can't even hear them enter the room. He's laid down and they go to sleep. Sometimes they play for a time, sometimes Kate fusses for a time, but usually they go right to sleep.


From my experience, it seems that you do just need to bite the bullet and put them in together. They adjust to each other. And they love to be together. Some nights I think it helps them go to sleep. James usually tries to be a big helper and be quiet when we bring Kate in. So, I think it helps him to get in a sleep mode rather than a play-in-my-crib-with-my-bunny-until-I-crash mode.

Again, thanks for the advice!

Toddler Talk

Mommy: James, what do you do on the potty?

James: I close my eyes and breathe in its fat, red smell; I wish that I could eat it now and never, never tell.


This is one funny boy! His comment was a direct quote from the book "First Tomato Soup" by Rosemary Wells (the "fat, red smell" he refers to is referring to a tomato in the book). He has had a knack for memorizing books verbatim since before he was 18 months old, but I'm pretty sure this is the first time he's used a book quote to answer a question from me. I have no idea why he chose this moment to do it, but it definitely gave me a good laugh. I love this little boy.

Kate: 5 Months

She's starting to drool. Teething or just baby? I hope just baby. I'm fine with late teething.

This is the other skirt Amanda made for Kate. She made it from one of her old shirts. We love having a part of her with us. :) I love how the layers curled up at the edges after I washed it. So cute!

This little girl has been trying to figure out crawling for a couple weeks now. Seriously?! She's growing up too fast. She mostly gets up on all fours and hops her legs forward. It's pretty amusing.

Love this face!

Yep. We have another finger sucker. James sucks his thumb. We tried to get Kate to take a pacifier, but failed. She prefers her fingers.

Currently, Kate is working on crawling and sitting up. She loves to be tossed into the air (moderate heights of course). She loves all people. I don't have to worry about handing her to someone she's never met before, she loves everyone. Funny though, she typically won't look at you while you hold her. If you're holding her, she looks everywhere, but at your face. As soon as you put her down, she will lock onto you as if to say, please pick me up. But, then she promptly ignores you in favor of the greener grass elsewhere. I think she must just like the vantage point she's given to view the world when she's being held. She must not want to miss out on anything. She is a very happy little girl. She absolutely adores James and her daddy. She always lights up when Jordan comes into view. She has also become quite a talker. I love her stories. :)

I forgot to mention that we learned she has a milk allergy when she turned 4 months. So, we (she and I) have been off milk. I do so love milk, but I'm learning how to survive and cook without it. (We're kind of used to this though since Jordan is sensitive to milk as well, but the difference is that I have to be completely restricted!) If anyone has any non-dairy recipes that you fancy, please pass them on. The doctor tells me that there is a good chance she will be milk allergy free by the time she's a toddler. Here's hopin'!

Here's a picture with James. I'll post an all around update soon. James is sure growing up. He's such a good helper. He loves Kate. He always wants to sit on this chair with Kate when he wakes up in the morning and from his nap. He likes to cuddle her and give her loves.

And yes...I cut my hair. I also got new glasses, but they will have to be revealed at a later time. (I stepped on my old glasses while in Utah; I needed a new prescription and new glasses anyway though).